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white_elephant
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Join Date: 06-18-2008
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Points: 3,764.10
Bank: 0.00
Total Points: 3,764.10
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Writing |
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wife to my awesome husband of 11 years |
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late discovery |
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white_elephant's Details
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Support
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About Me:
Late discovery adoptee, recent confirmation, details of afamily are still somewhat sketchy. They refuse to help me. Birth family, father rejected me 2 days before this past father's day, and birth mother is the only one "pending" for me. In the future. I have her info. Sense I knew birth father as older brother, she was his "girl" and then wife for about 6 years while I was young. He was 22 she was 14 at my birth! Imagine that scandal for a minute! They did not "get it together enough to regain custody of me, although tried really hard! Finally quit when I was about 12, realizing they hadn't enough money to get me back. It was not a formal adoption - there was fraud involved. Everyone had something on someone - blackmail was a common topic as well in the house! Twins are rampent in this kinfamily, I know of at least 4 sets in the kin family. It's a huge mess.
Oddly enough, I am unique in that I have more facts about my birth mother name, etc. than I do have facts about those w |
Who I'd Like to Meet:
Birth mother, but only if I know she is welcoming me into her life openly - NOT if I am to be a hidden skeleton again! Can't and won't do that again! 40 years is enough! |
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white_elephant's Favorites
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Dream Car:
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I own it
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Dream Job:
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I have it
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Dream Vacation:
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I'm on it
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Family Activity:
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Loving peacefully my husband, and sharing with him and with my 2 young adult birth children and 2 gorgeous grandbabies. 1 boy 18mo, 1 girl 6 mos.
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Flower:
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Lilac
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Holiday:
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Valentine's Day (Anniversary,also)
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